Showing posts with label rules in relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label rules in relationships. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Life, Love and the Universe (June 14th)

I saw the movie “Sex In The City 2” last week. I don’t see Oscar nominations knocking at its door, but it was entertaining. (Chewing gum for the eyes, as my mother used to say).
As always I found something to take away and this time it was Carrie’s words to her 3 friends, “We’re making up our own rules for our relationship”. She was referring to her and Big’s marriage of course.

This idea was followed up (for me) the following day when a client sat in front of me, using self-empowered language of what he wanted (and deserved) from his current relationship. He ended with the words, “I don’t just want what’s normal – I’m not normal. I’m unique.”
Wow! And that coming from someone who initially considered himself lacking in self-confidence and shy.

Now, we can hardly call Carrie shy – but she did take a while (and many relationships) to figure out who she wanted in her life.
And now she’s figuring out how to make it work.

You also have this opportunity in life – to work out what works for you in your most important relationships. Follow a ‘rule book’ that makes YOU happy and fulfilled.
And then you will be.

So – this week consider:
• What do you want from your relationship(s)?
• How do you deserve to be treated?
• Are your needs being met?
• Does the communication satisfy you?

• And importantly, what are YOU going to do or say for any changes to happen?

Have a wonderful week, Being Perfectly You.
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